![]() I get dressed and drive to him to find him sitting in his car talking to the mystery coworker he never mentions. I find him once more in front of the same house. Around 10:50 the alarms in me are screaming and I go to check his location on Snapchat again. He sends me a random text saying he’s sweating and he hates it. I said that it was alright and I’m just checking on him. He says he is getting calls from work and names 2 women he’s in contact with. Around 9:40 PM I message him asking what is wrong. He left around 7 and I did not hear back from him for 2 hours. Last night he said he’ll go to the grocery store by our house to buy fruit cause we’re sick at home all week. He did come home shortly after with his drink, but I’m suspecting it was a cover. Again, the alarms were ringing but I kept my mouth shut. I thought that was odd, so out of curiosity I looked up his location on Snapchat and found him in front of someone’s house. I texted him to see where he is and he said he went to get a certain version of Dr. A couple nights later my fiancé is out late (9:30 PM) when his work ends at 9 but he is usually home by 8-something. I do have trouble with my self esteem so when I saw that I immediately got suspicious but didn’t say anything. I don’t know if he noticed that i saw, but he turned his phone off almost immediately. I had to do some digging and found out they work together.Īnyway, one night we were watching a film and I noticed he was texting someone and he sent her a “❤️□□” message. He has no problem talking about the women of his work, but this individual’s name he never mentioned. I see they have exchanged texts, Instagram messages, and snapchats. ![]() Recently I’ve been noticing a girl’s name constantly pop up on his phone. We have a pretty healthy relationship, I believe, we hardly fight and we have no problem having long talks about our feelings. ![]() My fiancé (30M) and I (29F) have been together for almost 4 years, engaged for 2. Submitted by SupremeMemeCreamTeam to Redvox Ģ023.03.07 02:36 Ok-West5261 Relationship of 4 years: Am I (30F) insecure or is my fiancé (31M) cheating? Long story Submitted by alyymarie to TwoXChromosomes Ģ023.03.07 02:37 SupremeMemeCreamTeam Me, Oh Well not considered a part of Afterthoughts? Is it a single only release? But he says he doesn't care about getting compliments, so he seems to feel like if he doesn't care, then I shouldn't either. I don't compliment him much either and I know that's a two way street. When I say I'm feeling bad about myself because of my weight, he says "just workout then." But why do I want to work out when I just feel like shit all the time, and it feels like he doesn't appreciate me regardless? But I work 2 jobs and take online classes, I do most of the cooking at home, and I have 2 cats. I've been complaining about my weight a lot (I gained like 10-15 pounds since 2020), so it's not like I'm not aware of that. Today he said he's been trying to get me to work out with him because I've "gotten chunky" since covid. When I mention that he doesn't compliment me, he says it's not his job to make me feel good about myself, that I should work on my confidence. He never mentions my outfits, hair, or makeup, unless it's to say that he doesn't like something about it. Once in a while he's called me "hot" but never beautiful or even pretty. This is only my second serious relationship - it's been 7 years and I'm 30 - but I'm having serious doubts. It seems like a dumb question to ask, I know it varies.
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